Clarity

Why is it that older generations frown upon the fact that I am twenty two and an unwed mother? I would like to make something very clear to those Delta Bravo's who believe my son was a "pleasant surprise."

WE, as in myself and my husband to be (July. 20, 2012 baby!) planned for our child and had talked about having children for a few years before taking action-quite literally. What better time for us to have a child? We haven't amassed much debt, we are young, healthy and have lots of energy. Why, old grumpy cows, would I want to wait until I'm older to have kids? I pondered this for so long before deciding to become a parent. What is so much better about starting a family when I'm older. I know, from dealing with a few morons, that wisdom doesn't come with age. I have yet to figure out where wisdom comes from, but you don't wiser when you get wrinkles. I based my decision on the age of my soul, my life experiences, my education and my goals. I believe that however you enter this world, that will be the path your life takes. If you are a chaotic surprise to your parents, your life might just be a bit unorganized and full of surprises that you hadn't planned for but love anyway. My child came into this world with a bunch of people waiting to love him, and everything was planned...down to what color my toes were painted during labor. So take that thundercunts. I will gladly find you a phonebook so that you can dial someone who cares.